All sorts of love

Do you believe in love at the first sight?
Or do you believe in love over time aka gradual love?
What if I told you that both are real and I experienced both?
Well here's my version of Love at First Sight vs Gradual Love.

Love at First Sight
This is the story of my first relationship ever. Now we have broken up due to some things. My story began at the time I started college. He was my senior, 2 years older than me. I first met him in an tutoring event held by a student organization. He became one of the tutor to teach us the first year students. He was very attractive it was hard not to notice him. And it was not just in my eyes, but every other new girls. Yeah I could know that because at the end of the event most of the first year girls were talking about him. I didn't join in the gossiping crowd though. I just kept what I thought to myself. But deep down I honestly felt that there was something about him. I felt like he showed more attention to me when he tutored in the event (the eye contact, direction of talking, gestures and body leaning). He kept trying to sit close to me. But once again, I didn't want to be over confident, so I just kept it to myself until we kept getting closer and one day we finally got together (and now broke up lol). Maybe it's not really a "love at the first sight" as it was just a mere attraction (you cannot count that as "love" yet, right? hahaha).

Love Over Time (Gradual Love)
Now, this story is a new story as it was just happened recently. Actually it's still messing with my feeling as I'm writing this right now (and I'm writing to let this crappy feelings out). I haven't tell anyone about this yet so sshhh.. Here's the story. He is my classmate in college. Now I'm on the start of my fourth year in college, therefore now I have already known him for four years. Before, I've never had any feelings toward him, not even just a little. All I know was that he's the nice helpful guy in the class that is nice with everyone. Until finally at the end of our third year we were put in the same group for an exchange program abroad together with some other students. From there I started to get to know him. He was a funny and caring person. I had a good time spending time with him and we always had something to talk/laugh to. He's the kind that always respectful and never treat people badly. Always saying please, sorry, and thank you lol. He also took care and being nice to everyone in our group. So actually there's no reason for me to feel special or anything. But I swear this genuine kindness really got me. It's really unexpected and actually I'm still in denial right now. This is the first time ever in my life I fall for someone not because of his looks, but his kindness. Maybe you're judging me real hard right now but admit it; if you like someone, usually it's his/her look that first catches your attention, then you start trying to get to know his/her personality afterwards (e.g like in my first story). But not in this case. I honestly don't even know how but, now I understand why people say attractive personality can make a person look physically more attractive too. Well, seems like now it's time for me to get ready to be heartbroken (why? There's also an interesting story about this, haha).